Why It’s Not Too Late: Shirin Eskandani’s Journey to Motherhood at 40 | ep 17
If you’ve ever felt like you were running out of time, this one’s for you.
I had the absolute joy of sitting down with my dear friend and mentor, Shirin Eskandani. Over the years, we’ve collaborated on everything from Facebook ads to podcast production (fun fact: I produced the Wholehearted Coaching podcast for over 4 years!). But beyond that, Shirin’s work has profoundly impacted me—especially when it comes to releasing outdated timelines and redefining success on your own terms.
Shirin’s Journey: Becoming a Mom at 40
Shirin Eskandani became a mom at 40, on her own intentionally chosen terms. In our conversation, she shared how the pressure to hit predetermined milestones was replaced by her commitment to healing and living intentionally. Instead of rushing into motherhood, she waited until she was emotionally, spiritually, and relationally ready.
“We didn’t bring our daughter into the world to fix or complete anything. We were already whole. She just made it more magical.”
This conversation dives deep into how she let go of the notion that there’s a “right timeline” and instead embraced her unique path.
Letting Go of Outdated Timelines
One of the most powerful parts of our conversation was about shedding the pressure of conventional timelines. Shirin explained that many people assume they’re behind if they don’t hit every milestone by a certain age. In reality, she believes that following a prescribed timeline is just a story that limits us.
Instead, she challenges us to choose the discomfort of doing something new over staying in a life that doesn’t truly fit our hearts.
Redefining Success in Motherhood and Beyond
For Shirin, becoming a mom wasn’t a last resort or a way to fill a void. It was the natural expansion of a life already lived with intent. Her story proves that waiting until you’re truly ready can transform your experience and deepen your relationships.
Additionally, we explore how her journey led her to completely reimagine what coaching could be.
Reimagining the Coaching Industry
Shirin’s transition from opera singer to life coach wasn’t just a career pivot, it was a revolution. Disillusioned with an industry that often overlooked trauma, maintained outdated systems, and pushed toxic productivity, she created the Wholehearted Coaching Certification.
This program offers a decolonized, trauma-informed, and heart-centered approach to coaching that honors both the coach and the client. If you’ve ever felt “too much” or “not enough” to be a coach, Shirin’s groundbreaking work will remind you that your lived experiences are your greatest asset.
Learn more and apply here:
wholeheartedcertification.com
Key Takeaways from the Conversation
Intentional Motherhood: Choosing to become a mom on your own timeline means building a full life first—not rushing into motherhood to complete you.
Breaking Free from Pressure: The conventional timeline is a myth. Embrace your own pace and trust that waiting until it feels right can lead to a more fulfilling life.
Transforming the Coaching Landscape: Shirin’s Wholehearted Coaching Certification empowers you to coach with integrity, inclusivity, and real impact.
Final Thoughts
If you’ve ever felt behind because you’re not following a “set” timeline, Shirin’s story is here to remind you that it’s never too late to begin. Her journey shows us that healing, intentional living, and reimagining success are not just ideals—they’re the foundation of a life lived fully and on your own terms.
Share this episode if you know someone who needs the reminder that it’s never too late. Together, let’s choose to live intentionally.
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Hey there, I’m Ronni
I help people unlearn, heal, and step into a life that’s actually theirs. Around here, we question the rules, embrace the magic, and just see what happens.
When I’m not talking manifestation, you’ll find me lost in a new oracle deck, junk journaling, crocheting, or crafting miniatures for my dollhouse.